Love And Marriage In Colonial Latin America
...from that in centuries, and even the decades, before us. With the uprising of technology and advanced ways of communicating that neither our parents, aunts, uncles, nor grandparents had, intimate relationships have become cyber and impersonal more than anything else. My generation and more so the generation below me, will grow up forming bonds through AOL Instant Messenger, MySpace, and Facebook. Young lovers do not exchange hand written letters anymore. Nor do we send flowers for any particular reason. Instead, we send a touching e-mail or a free E-Card from a website such as hallmark.com. Virtual internet flowers have taken the place of a real dozen of red roses. Chivalry today consists of sending compliments over the Internet attached with correlating smiley faces, signifying that a significant other is interested. Relationships, whether marital or romantic, existing centuries ago in Colonial Latin America were both different and similar to those of today.
Several scholars have argued that romantic love in Colonial Latin America did not openly exist nor did it thrive until the 18th century. It was even said to be seen as a necessary precursor to marriage. In Ramon Gutierrez's 1991 study of colonial New Mexico, he found that in the early 1700's , the most frequent reasons given to a priest for marriage were religious or obligatory , usually enforced by the parents. By the turn of the 19th century, it became clear, according to Gutierrez that couples' reasons had drastically changed from collectivist to individualistic (Earle 22-23). Some researches disagreed with Gutierrez and believed that romantic love never penetrated into colonial Spanish America or if it did, it fell into disgrace at the turn of the 17th century. According to our text, a marriage almost always was between the same ethnicity and social class, but it was not uncommon for Iberian males...
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